Jackie Robinson, a baseball pioneer and legend, broke the color barrier in the major leagues. In doing so, he faced jeering crowds in every stadium. One day in his home stadium in Brooklyn, he committed an error. He stood at second base, while fans ridiculed him.

Then, as reported by Leadership Magazine, shortstop Pee Wee Reese came over and stood next to him. He put his arm around Robinson and faced the crowd. The raucous crowd fell silent. Jackie Robinson later said that arm around his shoulder saved his career. The gesture spoke more eloquently than the words: this man is my friend.

According to Harpers Bible Dictionary, friendship is a relationship of mutual trust and congeniality. A variety of sources suggest that the single syllable utterance—friend—is the finest word in any language.

The quality of our friendships is directly linked to the quality of our lives. For example, Howard Hughes, one of the previous century’s earliest and most eccentric billionaires, reportedly said regarding his financial fortunes, “I’d give it all for one good friend.”

John Trent and Gary Smalley inform us in The Hidden Value of a Man, Hughes made this statement when his personal fortune was valued in excess of four billion dollars. In his last years, Howard Hughes became a paranoid recluse, having virtually no contact with other humans. In the estimation of some his death was a merciful end to a miserable existence. In spite of all his wealth the quality of his life was quite poor.

Friends do more than enhance the quality of our lives, though. Good friends are our greatest champions. As the wise counselor Solomon states, “The heartfelt counsel of a friend is as sweet as perfume and incense” (Proverbs 27:9). Friends will tactfully tell us when our clothes don’t match or when our breath smells bad, even when it is time to go on a diet. Solomon also reports that “wounds from a friend can be trusted…” (Proverbs 27:6a). As one poet has put it:

Friends are there in good times

and times that are bad.

Friends are faithful companions,

whether we are happy or sad.

And, friends tell us the truth,

even at the risk of making us mad. 

Thus, “as iron sharpens iron, a friend sharpens a friend” (Proverbs 27:17 NLT). Friends enhance and enrich our lives. True friends help us become better people. A person who has friends is amongst the world’s wealthiest individuals. Friends are one of life’s most treasured blessings.

True friendship involves a willingness to take risks. It requires that we open our hearts and lay our lives on the line. Sometimes it is as simple as stand by someone with our arm around her shoulder. Sometimes it involves much more, because a true friend is willing to do whatever it takes!

Jesus affirmed this truth when He said, “The greatest love a person can have for his friends is to give his life for them” (John 15:13 TEV). His dedication to this principle was confirmed with His actions. Thus, surrendering His life to those who would crucify Him was, among other things, the greatest demonstration of friendship ever witnessed by human eyes.

That's why one of the finest thoughts we know, one of the finest songs we sing is: What a friend we have in Jesus!

© Bill Williams
May 3, 2006
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9 Responses to Friendship

  1. Dee Andrews says:

    Thanks for the good post on friendship, Bill. It’s interesting, informative and much needed by us all.

    Cheers! Dee

    You’re certainly welcome, Dee. Glad you stopped by. Grace and peace to you, -bill

  2. Cecil Walker says:

    The beauty of blogging with all of you is how many new (un-met) friends I have. God bless.

    The www has many dangers, but there are still some great things about it. Our blog-church is close to the top of the list, as far as I’m concerned.

  3. Greg England says:

    I have had the fortune of a friend. And I would agree with Hughes, though I don’t have anywhere near his kind of money, if I had to make a choice between friends and fortune, I’d go with friends … especially friends who have a lot of money!

    You got that right, Greg! Well, maybe…as long as there are no strings attached to the money, right?

  4. Kathy says:

    Friends! What a beautiful God-given blessing! There simply is no substitute for close, running mate friends. The LORD has blessed me with truly close friends, that no matter the physical distance we are always close.

    I once read that we can share our difficulties with an acquaintence, but the sign of a friend is the one with whom we share our joys. It’s THAT friend we seek out when something spectacular happens in our lives, when a treasured occurance pops into our lives.

    Thank You, LORD for showing us what true friendship is. Again, You are the model. You have called us “friends”. How incredible is THAT! The Creator of the Universe calls us His friends. What greater blessing can He possibly give us? Thank You, thank You, LORD Jesus!!

    And Bill, what a treasure you have gifted us with on this blog, especially today. This is a subject that truly warms my heart! Bless you too, for being a dear, though never-seen cyberspace friend!!

    Thank you for being a friend, Kathy! Your comments, emails and prayers are a real blessing to my life.

  5. jel says:

    Friendship is a gift!

    Great Post here! 🙂

    Thanks Bill!

    You’re welcome, Jel! I appreciate your visits!

  6. Larry says:

    The friends I have now are the greatest a man could hope for. Before I came back to Christ I had no friends, now I am blessed to have a cell phone full of them. Anyone of whom I could call and they would be there for me and vice versa.

    Two are better than one!


    Glad you stopped by, Larry. Appreciate your comment and hope you will come back often.

  7. donna says:

    A beautiful post…thank you

    Thanks, Donna!

  8. JP says:


    Great post and so true. Besides my wife, I can only call one person my true friend. Everyone else, although they have a place in my heart, are only acquaintances. This post makes me really appreciate that friendship. Good post Bill

  9. Lovely post. Friendship rejuvenates our lives. It offers us a reason to love and live for others.
    Check out my friendship blog at for some beautiful e-greeting cards and friendly tips.

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